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ex-saxophonist
 2Benevolent'o3
ex-northviewen; ex-brooksian
republican
SHL - DSLM
girlfriends
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- that adidas watch!
- crumpler sling bag!
- GUESS wallet
- havaiannas flipflops
- change/repair phone
- DSLR camera
- Fuji Instant Cam
- Canon IXUS 980/S90
- Wii
- Heels
- driving + bike license
- taiwan trip
- bangkok trip
- holiday trip w friends,
cousins & bf + gfs!
- go around the world!


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Friday, December 04, 2009
a short break from lesson and i'm here to revive my blog! (:

i had encountered some incidents recently and i realized how easily people can change due to the good things that they thought they've seen on the other side. like what people say, "the grass is always greener on the other side." and when people decided to jump to there, have they thought of the consequences that may come along with it?
people will comment regardless of whether you're doing something good or bad, and when you've decided to do it, why be bothered by what people comment? if you feel happy or relieved doing that, then so be it. they're not you, they can't feel what you're feeling. if you've done something bad, then suck thumb and move along already. why stay on and get angry over what has been done and said? just remember that if someone has jumped for you because they think that you're better or vice versa, they can also do the same to other people as well.

also, does being in a relationship means you have to lose your friends? i strongly disagree on that, and i'm sure most of my friends feel the same way too. but, does being in a clique gives you the right to neglect your other friends that you met somewhere else? you'll only realize soon enough that you're gonna lose all your friends faster than you expected. when the time comes, don't go back running to the friends you've neglected and complain about how bad they've done to you and everything, because you're doing exactly the same thing to them as well. if you feel that you have your boyf/girlf with you and that there's nothing to worry about, think again. when you don't have your boyf/girlf anymore, what are you going to do?

i swear this is not directing at anyone, but something that i've been pondering about after some incidents. i'm not trying to side anyone either, just a food for thought. (:

okay just nice, lesson started.